In this blog, I will discuss problems young people face in today's society. I am using events from Sweet Briar College as well as other topics that affect young people. I will describe the way I observe and handle situations as a young Christian.

Monday, February 18, 2008

Supporting Reality Television

Like most teenagers, I watch and enjoy reality television shows. My favorite channel is Bravo, and I never miss an episode of "Project Runway" or "Make Me a Supermodel." Bravo Tv represents many different ways of life that I disagree with, yet I still support the channel every Wednesday and Thursday night. I love fashion, which is my initial interest in these shows, but when I watch the shows I feel guilty. There are inappropriate scenes as well as inappropriate language. It is not sinful to be tempted, but giving into temptation is sinful. So are we sinning every time we  watch a reality television show? 
Unlike a fictional movie or series, reality television follows other people's lives. There are still writers for the shows who make it more dramatic, but the way all of the situations are handled is under the participant's control. If we are going to support reality television, I think we should know about the people in the show. There are blogs, diary entries, and portfolios for the participants in the shows of Bravo Tv. I read about the designers and the models that I choose to support. Some of the people on these shows are struggling with their faith and their religious values because of what exists in the fashion and modeling industry.
 My friends and I look forward to the drama of our favorite shows every week. They are tempting to watch, but we must pick and choose what we will let affect us. And we must keep in mind the people that are participating in these shows. I think there are a lot of talented people on these shows, and I will continue to pray for them and support them. 

Holly is a contestant on Make Me a Supermodel, and this is what she has to say in response to a challenge: Holly's diary 

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Freshman Orientation at Sweet Briar College

During orientation it is important to explain what college life will be like to the new freshman, but sometimes all the information can be a bad thing. There were three specific lectures freshman were obligated to attend, and they were all about sex and alcohol. For the majority of the students, it was accepted as normal college behavior; however, some students felt uncomfortable sitting in the audience. The talks were presented in a very vulgar way that included unrefined words and dances. I asked three religious students how they felt during the orientation "sex talks" and they described it as "awkward, shocking, and weird." 

-Overall, how comfortable did you feel?

"I wasn't uncomfortable about the topic, but I felt uncomfortable about them saying it was okay to sleep around if you already had the intention to in the first place." -Anonymous(non-denominational Christian).
 
"They were saying everything in a way that we were all doing it. They were giving a lot of advice." -Anonymous(Moslem). 

-Do you feel like the lectures should be optional for future incoming classes?

"No, but I would want other speakers or multiple speakers so it would suit everyone's needs." -Anonymous(non-denominational Christian).

Sex and alcohol are obviously topics that are difficult for many religious teens to face during their college years. We are aware of what our classmates are doing, but we do not need to understand everything they are doing. It is difficult to follow our way of life if we are being made to listen to vulgar advice. The lectures made the topic sound like it was acceptable behavior for college students, but according to the religious it isn't acceptable behavior for anyone.